Going Dutch with Tantra

I found myself a little distracted while writing saucy posts for MLNP's blog feed (https://makelovenotporn.medium.com/) so I decided to treat myself (and you!) to a #procrasturbation break.

Big Daddy, Captain CB and I are on Spring Break visiting Grandma and Bopbop’s new house in a different state. When Grandma and Bopbop offer to take Captain CB to the pool, Big Daddy and I spring into action to enjoy some much-needed us-time (we love our foreplay and aftercare, so enjoy the long vid). Spring break is all about having sex and hoping your parents don’t catch you, amirite? Well, we definitely almost got caught this time! Be sure to watch till the end to see how we play it cool when we hear the sounds of my in-laws and the kid returning home. Want to know who Captain CB is? Read my post about being a sex-positive parent on MLNP’s blog feed here: https://makelovenotporn.medium.com/sex-goddess-secrets-to-raising-a-sexually-empowered-kid-3135c3ded69f

Time alone is a rare, blissful treat, so this morning I took a few minutes to commune with my pleasure. For almost nine minutes, my body barely moves as I narrow my focus to a single point just beneath my fingers. Join me for the ride.

It's Dry January, and for this Tantric Dominatrix that means no sex. According to my rules (who else is going to tell me what to do?), I can kiss, cuddle, touch and be touched. So here in my first MLNP video, I'm slowly savoring the taste, scent and feel of my partner as we exchange energy while kissing and embracing. No one came. No one complained either. I hope you enjoy as much as we did. p.s. peep the cameo by my red Thinx #period panties. ;)

When my gimp and I make love we have a special playlist we like to listen to. So, often after filming, we have to find novel ways to remove the background music, as we don’t have the rights to use it. In this video (from two different evenings together), we found ourselves deeply connected in pleasure while listening to this song (https://youtu.be/nOubjLM9Cbc). The footage was too beautiful not to share, so we dubbed audio from a different video of ours with no music playing. 
At times, the results feel like an old Kung Fu movie with English voice overs. It’s not perfect, but it was certainly fun to make – and that’s what makes it #RealWorldSex

Tantra is deliciously slow. This footage is the beginning of a very long lovemaking session between my gimp and me. We don’t see each other as often as we’d like. So when we do, we take our time making up for lost time. I particularly enjoyed creating this one (In fact, I masturbated several times while editing it.) Please enjoy.

When I worship myself, I take my time. I slowly savor the feel of my skin beneath my hands. I take my time expressing gratitude for every part I touch. I patiently offer myself blessings of acceptance. And my time is well spent. At the peak of my worship, the purest pleasure washes over me again and again. In these moments, I am fully one with myself. And nothing is more divine than that.

After my December #RealWorldSex Watch Party (with MLNP founder, Cindy Gallop, as my guest co-host), my gimp got on his knees and worshipped me with his mouth. It was a pretty good night. Speaking of good, have you been to one of my virtual #RealWorldSex Watch Parties? If not, where have you been? Every month on the 20th, I choose a theme and share my favorite selections of MLNP previews. Want to join in? Visit https://realworldsex-watchparty23-goddesserica.eventbrite.com to RSVP, or reach out to the the MLNP curators to have one of your videos featured. All video previews are shared with each featured MLNPstar’s permission.

When it comes to being a working parent, there’s not a lot of down time. If you don’t schedule intentional breaks, it’s easy to end up tending to everyone else’s needs but your own. This video was captured by Big Daddy on a day off from work when no one else was home, and I love how he put forethought and planning into his self-pleasure. In true Dad fashion, he came prepared with gadgets, toys and TWO different kinds of lube. He even laid down a towel (which comes in handy at the end!)

Hot Octopuss sent us a partnered stroker toy to try out, so we did. Filming this was a lot of fun, and I love how it captured the spirit of the way Big Daddy and I relate to each other as lovers and playmates. Especially when we resorted to rock-paper-scissors to decide who would be in control of the only working remote. ;) If you want to see more of us and other MLNPstars, you can join us LIVE every 20th at our monthly #RealWorldSex Watch Party where we share previews of MLNP videos like this one. https://realworldsex-watchparty23-goddesserica.eventbrite.com